I was judgemental. Now I am curious.

When I was much younger and hot-headed, I used to look at people as either “good” or “bad”. And from this conclusion, I would deem their actions as either “right” or “wrong”. My view of life (and people) was monochrome …

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Good Decision vs Bad Outcome

A good decision is based on what we know of the options and the odds. A good outcome either happens, or it doesn’t. It‘s a consequence of the odds, not the hidden answer which many self-help pooroos claim. Just as …

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Never Assume

“Will we be coming back here to play again?” asked my friend Gary, after a golf session. “I’m not sure. But most likely no. Why did you ask?” I replied. ”I’ll tip the caddie differently if this is the last …

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